And so we are in March.....
The daffodils are blooming, the sun is out and the breeze is still cold yet has that spring fresh feel, it is no longer dark when I walk out the house for work and when I leave work.....
However one thing remains the same.......Still single!!...January and February have clearly not been fruitful as such, however I am still certain to start as I mean to go on!!
Its important to carry on doing your thing, those who are on this same quest....as easy as it is to say....'Don't give up'....We all have our off days and quite rightly so...we are allowed at least one day to wallow.....but make sure its only one day and get it out of your system....then make sure you do something YOU like, YOU enjoy, makes YOU happy....be it going out and getting a Krispy Kreme doughnut....(my fav is a fresh hot original glaze and the vanilla custard.....hmmmm *she drools*).....but yeah do the things that make you happy....and list things.... I always find making a list helps.....list all the things you want to do, go and work through it in order of priority/Importance...(even if go getting a Krispy Kreme doughnut is at the top of your list...and yes right now that's number one on my list!!!). Channel your energy into something productive......the main thing is you carry on, you live life.....don't dwell on some thing that is not there yet.....who knows with your list of activities/likes/want to do list....it might bring you to what you want.... :)
One thing I have learnt and sometimes the hard way....life is too short.....we are easy to moan and complain about what we do not have in life, when truly we are all so blessed in many and different ways and that is something to truly celebrate....You are You for a reason :)
I saw the below link this morning and it warmed my heart so much :) hope it does the same for you too :)
http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/p01ssrp2/Original_Drama_Shorts_My_Jihad/
Inshallah (God Willing) we will all get there in the end somehow..some way :)
Have a beautiful Fruitful sunny day where ever you are :)
- Halaal Chick In he City ;) x
